Clarity is important to me. In anything and everything. In fact it’s so important I find joy in creating it.

I believe many will claim that it’s related to control, that I need control. Personally I’m not convinced. For me, it’s more about respect and integrity.

Example, if you want me to do something for you – be clear on what it is. If it matters when or how it’s done, be clear on that to. If you haven’t thought it through, there is a high probability that you will not get what you want. Leaving you unsatisfied, and maybe asking me to redo it – not respecting my time.

Another example is that I think it’s better to be clear to what I need/want or don’t want. It’s more fair to both you and me. I think that the need too explain oneself often is too big in our society. Why isn’t enough that I don’t want to do something. Overall starting my sentences with “I want”, “I need”, “I will not”, is a very simple way i say it in a full sentence.

When this reel came in my feed yesterday, I knew that allowing me be clear is actually helping my mental health to.