It’s hard. Changing. Or no. Or yes. I guess, what I mean is that some things are hard, while others are not. For me I have no trouble to see what and how I need to change, nor do I have a problem with the actual change and adaption of myself. That’s rather easy. While it’s much harder for me to accept other peoples comments and viewpoints on what I’m changing.

Even if I know I can’t change peoples viewpoints or if (and what) they will share with me. I notice I react. It makes me doubt. I become defensive. I become scared. Scared that they are right.

I guess there is only one thing I can do. Stand tall and protrude. Then we will see. Who was right. If that now is important.

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