I’ve come to realize that I’m one of those people, who are either on or off. I think it has to do by the fact that I’m extremely result driven. I clearly have a hard time understanding why to do it, if you don’t want to give it your everything (except physical activities).

It’s not about what is being done or not. It has to do with the willingness to do at all.

Sure, there are things you do just because it’s fun, but then you do it all to make it the most fun, or?

I also realize it can be a hard to work/ cooperate with me as I expect everyone to be as me. Want more, do more to meet the whatever goal set.

Now, as I do know people aren’t always like me, I’m the one who needs a different approach. I need to be challenged in the only two options I see.

The first one is to not care so much if the result is not met. However, then I loose my drive, my engine. Then I become just like the ones I despise.

The other, is to choose wisely in whatever I engage in, securing that I have the same mental approach as the others involved. This however can be hard to know in advance.

Is there another third and fourth way?