Why so hard?

When reading “stuff” on social media I get surprised (?)/sadden (?) about how many who dislike themselves and what they have/haven’t done.

I don’t wonder why. That’s pretty obvious. But why is it hard for folks to like themselves?

What happen in my life that made me think that I’m an awesome person, just like I am.

And then I don’t think so much about other people and continue to enjoy myself.