Is it not tragic when people are so displeased with their own life that they need to find stuff in yours that they don't like. From now on I say "no thank you" to these people and "have a good life in Self-pityville, I will not be visiting some time soon".
Time for dog-walking!
Louise Dock 
Oh, I know, Louise. I hope no one on Vox has offended you. There are always those that will want to find stuff in our live that they don't like so they don't have to look at theirs. I shared my tragedy in a post awhile back, before you were a neighbor but I experienced this on a great scale (in my life in the community in which I live!). I hope you don't leave Vox. I enjoy having you as a friend 🙂
No. no one here at Vox, I have had some strange comments from strangers at some times, but it is nothing that I care about (freedom of speech and freedom of listening I say), just because they are strangers. I just read your story, and compared my tragic is not even close to yours. But I do believe that in the end it is the same kind of people. People who rather "intervene" with you in order to not intervene with them self… because it is SOOO much easier. I hope your children are all well. I will teach mine that the most important thing is that they are happy, not me or their friends or anybody else.