I’ve decided to put a theme on my blog. It is not a life time decision, I mean, things can change. This theme (temporary or not) will correspond to my personal life theme (not temporary).

Lately I have been reflecting what the aim my life should be (no,  it is not as philosophical  as you might think). I think I have had the aim for a some time, unconsciously. But now, I have put it into words.

HAPPINESS

I will live each day to strive to be happy.
“Of course”,  you say “we all do.”
“No, you don’t”, I say.

Because then you would not have had a bad conscience for not playing with your kids today (you know that you WILL do it tomorrow), for not calling your mum or the fact that you once again “missed” the opportunity to tell that boss of yours that he really sucks (OK, not necessary  to use those exact words). If you were really striving to be happy, you would not get that stomach ace for accepting to be the host of that family get-togheter, which you not even wanted to go to.

Being happy is about knowing what you want (not could have or should have), standing up for it and moving towards it (I want to say without hurting anybody else, but I will stretch to say: “without consciously hurting someone else”) .

To be true to the most important person in your world – you. Then you can be that great partner, mother, friend, sibling, off-spring, colleague and employee that we all want to have.