That all people would take (at least) half a year to get to know one self. So people could make their choices and stand comfortably by them without asking for someoneelses (my) confirmation.

If you have done something for reasons that you believed was the right thing to do  – then it WAS the right thing to do independent what other people say or think. If you have not harmed anyone else in the process then you are OK.

So ask me for advise if necessary but stop asking for my confirmation. I like you anyway and you will be much happier, I promise you that.