Happy 2008 to all of you! I am not much for resolutions, since I truly believe that these are just poor excuses to why you have not dealt with your miserable life before. BUT still, when a year comes to an end at least I have a tendency to try to wrap up the year that has past and this year I came to the following conclusions:

Love – stay. I am very much in love with the man present in my life at the moment and I care for it to stay that way. We are going on 15 years this summer and he the BEST for me.

Children -more. Not in pieces (yet) but in time. I will go down in working time after the summer.

Social -more. I want to be more sociable with the people close to me (geographically). Most of my dearest friends are not living nearby and naturally I hope that the contact with them will stay as good as before. But I want to bring even more time to the people living close to me in order to have a richer social everyday life.

Work – less. As a consequence of the social thing above, I must become tougher at work. I can’t say that my overtime hours are drowning me, not enough to be swimming in I must confess. But I am still a bit stressed about accomplishing too many things. I must just say stop (and I thought I WAS good at that).

Dumbs ass people – go. People choose, or choose not to, live their life as the want. I early made the choice to live my life EXACTLY as I want (with a somewhat flexibility towards my dearest) . As long as I deliberately DO NOT hurt people around me I will continue to live just like that. Do the things I want and strive for the goals that I want. People who can’t accept that, or even worse, people who project their own short comings to me. These people will not be recognized by me, period.

And look at the oldest, he turned four the other day.